
Fr. Peter McVerry's drop in centre
Frankie McNamara
Last week, I did a social placement in Fr. Peter McVerry's drop in centre on Sherrard Street. I was curious about what the visitors to the centre would be like. A lot of the people I met there would have been on drugs like heroin or crack. Some still are. I was asked to interview some of these people and ask them why do/did they take drugs and before I got there I was very sceptical as to their responses and willingness to be open about their lives and addictions.
All of my preconceived notions of these people were discarded after the first half hour of my social placement. I was pleasantly surprised at how friendly, kind and open they all were. These are people who are in and out of jail most of their lives and nearly all of them had very tumultuous childhoods with either physically or sexually abusive parents, or even no parents at all. I was expecting them to be filled with hate and anguish. This definitely wasn't the case.
I remember one of the people I interviewed said that if he had another chance he would have never taken any drugs to begin with. He explained how he would love to be the same age as us again and how heroin took over his life and left him with nothing. He has lost three brothers and a sister related to drugs.
In my opinion the best way to describe this drop in centre is a very sad but happy place. Sad because some of these peoples lives are destroyed by drugs and happy because they are treated with dignity in this place. For these homeless people, the hardest thing about their situation is not finding a place to stay for the night, or trying to scrape up enough money for their next meal, it is the loss of their dignity. People are ashamed to be homeless and begging. The most important thing Peter McVerry does is not feeding them, clothing them or providing them with accommodation, he gives them back their dignity. I can't even say how important that is to everyone I met here.
Fr. Peter showed my brother Quincy and I around a few of the hostels that his Trust operates. We walked into a spacious room with big leather sofas and a fifty inch plasma TV in the corner. We were told this was the living room in one of the hostels. When I asked Peter why did they make the hostels so nice he replied that it was important to make them like this because he thinks it's really important that everyone in his care should feel valued and just as important as anyone else. That's a point I would definitely agree with. I think everyone should spend a few days with Peter McVerry so they would gain an understanding that homeless people are just people who have made a mistake over the course of their lives which led to their current situation and they are no less important than anyone else.
In my opinion I don't think the government cares much about homeless people. There are over 8,000 homeless people in Ireland and the government does little or nothing. They don't care about junkies. Being a junkie may be a part of their lives but it is only an aspect of their lives for most. The media brainwash the public that these "junkies" are scum. The truth is, the vast majority of these people aren't at all and unfortunately the media and the public pick up on the minority who are and then everyone gets tarred with the same brush.
Getting back to Peter McVerry, this was a great week for me and I would definitely do it again. I am hoping to give Fr. McVerry’s regulars, who visit his drop-in centre, guitar lessons on Wednesday afternoons after school in the New Year.
Quincy McNamara Syntax Kenney
For my social placement, I spent a week in Fr. Mc Verry’s drop in centre in Sherrard Street. This drop in centre finds homeless people and drug addicts (often both) on a daily basis, coming in for a chat with the people in the centre. They can get a cup of tea and a sandwich or talk to Fr. McVerry if they have a problem. They know that they will find people there whom they can talk to and that they will always be listened to in a friendly, non-judgmental way.
The week consisted of myself and my brother Frankie talking to people who are addicted to drugs. They told us how they started on drugs, their background and what age they were when they started getting involved in crime. They were very nice people and very open with Frankie and me. Some of them told us things that had happened to them in their lives that they had never told anyone before. Quite a few of them told me that they would give anything to be our age again – 16 and that they would take a different path if they could start all over again,
If I had to take one thing out of this week, it would be gratitude for the life I have, and that I won’t have to endure the pain and misery these people have become accustomed to.
It really was a great social placement, I couldn’t have asked for a better one. Fr. McVerry is very gentle and humble. He lives in very simple accommodation in Ballymun and his whole life is devoted to helping people on the margins of society, with no thought for himself. We found him very inspiring and talked a lot and thought a lot about the week we spent in his company. I was quite sad to finish up on the Friday because while we came across so many vulnerable and broken people whose lives are so hard, there was a lot of humour and laughter in the centre and it is a really good place for them to take a rest on every level.
Fr. McVerry is the kindest man I have ever met, and the people that attend the day centre really brightened up my day. For those two reasons and many more, I would like to help out in the drop in centre again in the near future.
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